Friday, April 23, 2010

Guilty Until Proven Innocent

Just in case I've led you to believe that Kid #2 is all sunshine and "beeg" hugs...

















This was what I walked into after leaving the boys alone in the playroom while I answered the phone.  After a bunch of thuds and way too many giggles, I finally went upstairs to break up the party.




"Who, me?"
Love those crabby jammies.  Thanks, Mom!


In his defense, Kid #1 looked just as guilty...

Half nude, as usual.  It is hard work just keeping this kid dressed.


Love and Logic Mom would probably say something like, "How sad.  Kids who make a mess in the playroom can't go outside until they clean it up."  or "Bummer.  You have two choices: clean up the room now or first thing in the morning."

Real Life Mom snickered to herself and said, "Wait, don't move!  Let me get my camera!". 

And I wonder why they're so confused.  :)

But in all seriousness, things have gotten much better.  I've completed the Love and Logic course and have been okay-ed to start practicing it...and guess what?  It works!!!  Up next is assigning some contributions to our family (chores) and issuing an allowance (which can then be used to repay us when he chooses to act out or "drain our energy").  Seriously, it's in the program.  I couldn't make this stuff up.

Any ideas for age-appropriate chores for a four-year-old?  And I'm thinking maybe $1 a week for an allowance, paid out in quarters?  Suggestions?